The life of mrs. fatihah (part One)

hey, readers

sorry for the late update

actualli, at the moment im kinda busy doing another blog for my biras.

it's for her assignment

tlg skit2 jek

please, i do need help.

can you guys help me, by commenting the blog

sbb, one of the syarat is to let friends and students comment tentang blog tersebut, isi kandgn and etc...

hope you guys can help

thnx ya=)

heres the name of the blog

rasianatoh18@blogspot.com

ok, well back to the story not to be fogotten=)

The Life of Mrs. Fatihah.

well, actualli, for the first 8 month of our marriage

there was so many ups and down, 

kena biasakan diri with the whole situation

believe me, it wasnt easy 

lg2, when among your friends, you were the only one yg kawen dlu.

and like, hati ni memberontak nk hangout ngn kawan2.

tp at the end, 

the decision you have made, what you need to sacrifice.

it's not like, mr omar tak bg hang out,

die always bg green light je, 

cume , me. 

am i doing the right thing?

"tingglkan suami sorg, waiting for his wifee

while his wife is having fun with friends

is this one of the small sin?"

masa2 mula, i tak terfikir pun. 

all i did think was, ok .husband dah bg

xpe la, on je

but bile lama2 

buat i terfikir alot of things

bukan ke syurga seorang isteri di bawah tapak kaki suami?

"Untuk menjadi isteri yang solehah.

sebagai seorang isteri, kita kena taat pada suami, sentiasa berada disisi suami"

huhu. seriously, bile i realized what i have done.

i rasa menyesal sgt.

actually, untuk menjadi seorang isteri.

bukan sahaja kena tahu,

masak

kemas rumah

basuh baju+angkat kain

or even buat pe yang our mother does

it is more than that

its about learning new things

its about, being there for you husband all the time.

when doing something, let it be sincere

instead of, "i had to"

 understanding your husband

we need to discipline our self

one important things

'kasih sayang'

bila dah kahwin, banyak sgt pahala yang kita dpt

"sediakan air untuk suami pun dah kira pahala"

ya allah,  mudahnya untuk mendapat pahala

im writing this, bukan sebab nak menunjuk2 

im writting this, i want readers to know what it is like

to be married.

i did do alot of reading on the internet and books

sampai sekarang

"i do still need guidance"

before married, i never really had anyone to guide me how to be a wife

 "it takes alot of practice and patience to be a wife"

well, readers, thats all for tonight

im off to bed 

i will continue writing the next chapter of

"The life of mrs. fatihah"

see ya=)

my feelings today

aku bukan perempuan kuat.
akulah perempuan yang paling lemah dalam dunia.
paling kuat menangis.
paling goyah dan tumbang di banyak masa.

Dr Lintah (Part Two)

hello guys;)

how are you today? 

how do you guys feel today?

well, here i am .continuing the story of dr.lintah..

*continue*

well, gelaran dr.lintah actually sbb my mr suami ,sister (now, my sis in law) ada buat rawatan lintah.

like, bekam lintah. letak kt bdn org and muka org mcm tu la...

bukan my suami, is really Dr.lintah. it just how my parents gelar him..hehe

so after, he cari2 and tnye kwan2 die about my number die tp xdpt.

He texted my dad, and said 

"doc,sy xdpt nk cri no tlfn anak dr..kot2 la doc bule bg kat sy"

and my dad reply, 

"sorry, xda dlam silibus. kene usaha keras lg.he he"

and then, mr suami ni xgive up

die text lg my dad, asking for my phone number

and then, guess who reply.

my sister.yes .my sister, marinah.

You know why, sbb that time. my dad dah tidur. and my sis were right next to my dads phone. she read the text msg, and reply it...by giving my phone number. do you guys believe it?

my dad kononye nak la bg thrill dlm misi mencari my number, tp at the end..terbongkar by my own sis.

lol!

believe it, or not!

(this is based on what mr suami and my dad told me after we got married) funny kan?

its like, dah memg tertulis. awwww.so sweet.

so, bile mr suami dah dpt my number.early in the morning (i remembered)

i receieved a msg, from an unknown number.

tp that time, bile i nak bukak msg tu.

my heart was beating so fasstttt

bile fikir2 balik, mcm xpecaye. He was the One.

dlm msg tu. die introduce diri die dl..(kinda gentleman), and we got know quite well.

tp tula, i couldnt promise myself to fall in love with him.sb br kenal..and ye la, eventhough my family likes him, i have to like him too ..kan? there are stages.

well, after 3 months of getting know each other.. tibe2, nk get engaged. seriously, that time. i have no idea what to do and what to decide..i did have friends that support me, and also there are close friends who really  got angry at me if i get engaged. ( well those close friends, are in my past. its better not to bring it up. Because as for them, im no longer their friends=( because of the decision that i have made. so, thats about it)

i perform solat istikarah, and berdoa , and hoping. this is the right decision.

and alhamdullilah, eventhough it was too early to fall in love with him.

i tawakal, and kuatkan hati. 

so after the engagement, that is when the real getting to know session begins...

i said to him, before you fall in love with me.you need to know my past and i need to know his past.

So, as long as there is no secret between us, we will be fine.

we got engaged for one year, and believe during the onee year engagement.it was tough.

banyakk sgt dugaann.. kekasih lama mencari, org lain nk berkenalan.there was so many things that was going on in both side. tetapi, allah itu yang telah tetapkan semua ini. nak uji hubungan kami.

just nak bg tips to those yg nak get engaged: do not, get engaged lame2. its not good for you, for him and for the family.believe me, 1 tahun pun da mcm2 terjadi, ni apatah lagi yg lebih dr 1 year.. as long as both believed in each other, understand, that what counts. and jgn sesekali mendegr cerita dr mult org. tnye sendiri. =)

after one year of engagement,

we got married=)

and now, we are experiencing the most awsome moment together.

and to be honest. kami betul2 bercinta, was the 1st day we lived under one roof.

ok that's all readers for this part.

=)

when i have the time, i will update the story with the tittle

"the life of mrs, fatihah"

stay tuned=)

thanks for reading

"Dr.Lintah"he he he

Alhamdullilah,

  

Im enjoying every second of each day, being as a wife.

It has been one journey, that i feel blessed, and always to be remembered.

It wasn't easy at first, but with patience and courage.

i learn, and yet I'm still learning.

sebenarnya, this time.

I nak bercerita dgn you all, kisah dua hati yang kini sedang menikmati kebahagiaan.

cewah, berformal gitu2.

actually, the story is about me&mr hubby.how we met, how we fall in love , what happen, etc...=)

nk cerita balik pun rase tersangtla seronok.

haish, jantung ni dupdapdupdap mcm time nikohh dl plak...hehhe

mungkin ramai jugak yg tertanye2, eh bile korg jumpe, dating, yg lama mcm mne,  dan etc...hehe

"Once upon a time,(cewah dah mcm dlm fairy tale la plak)"

i xpena pun kenal ngn abg omar, kalo ikutkan dlu ada je ikut my dad g outdoor camping.

tp tak pernah terlintas pun nama "omar", o kenal.

memg skg i akui

"jodoh itu rahsia allah"

ok back to the story,

dlu i belajar kat kptm alor star, mr suami belajar di upsi, tg.malim (my hometown, my dad's student)

semasa kat kptm dl, i msuk 2 or 3 i frust teramat dgn budak KL. memg ffrust la.

I thought, he was going to be The ONE. Tp , it didnt ended how i want it to be.well, so after the brake up, i was single sampailah sem 6. sebenarnya i tak tahu pun, my dad and my mum berkenan dgn seorg pelajar upsi. and my adik bongsu, tak habis2 puji dia. i plak tak pernah nk amik tahu siapa.so ,one day. during semester break. Tetibe, my dad boleh ask... kak long skg ngn siapa? and im like, erg noone. npe?

along dah lme single, mls la nk kapel2. biar mak and abah je la pilih... tak sangka plak,sebenarnya dorg berdua ni dah ada calon.  my dad pun jwb la, kalau gitu. bgusla abah and  mak da pilihkan dah..

and im like, yela dah pilih(xpercaya lgsg)

one the same day at night, one of my dad student dtg rumah. xterfikir pun it was him yg my dad and mom maksudkan . So i pun, buat biasa. serabut serabai je la. almaklumla duduk rumah kan. while i was at the kitchen, i terdgr my dad ckap, and like sakat2 him. and im like, dia ker yg my dad maksudkan?eh tak kot..abah gurau je kot ni...so after , the student balik..my dad tny, amacam, berkenan tak dgn dr lintah? and im like, huh siapa? and my mom, "yg dtg td la". and im like, bukan die tu student abah ke. and my dad pun mula "bercerita panjg tntg dia.

terkebil2 jugk la i nk fhm.blur.

so in the end, perasaan i was confused. me? getting married to a complete stranger?

hows that?

So, after one or two weeks after that, nothing happen.topic tu pun tak pernah di cakap2.

tetapi rupa2nya, Dr.lintah tuh, sedang berusaha keras untuk mendptkn no telfon i.

he he he

rasa terharu jugak.

kekeke

kenapa dipanggil dr lintah? mesti tertnye2 kan..

haaaa nnt i sambung part 2 of Dr lintah.

so ,tungguuuuuu=))

Goodnight Everyone

=)

Puan Fatihah Mohd Sani

19/03/2011

Saat diriku digelar sbg Seorg isteri

Pn. Fatihah

*wah, mcm xpercaya .im married.

Seriously, after the majls akad nikah.

im still like, terkebil2. eh betul ke?dah isteri org ni.

20/03/2011

During the wedding ceremony.

alhamdullilah, the ceremony went well. The way we all had it planned.

thank you semua yg datang, 

and those who gave presents,

and also for those who helped before, during and after the ceremony

thank you so much.

pictures, i have uploaded in my fb

so, here is my fb Teyha Sani

feel free to add

Jst to let everyone know: i Dont approve strangers who put cartoons, animals etc as their display picture or even name2 yg pelik2..

I only approve those "names" and "pictures" that i know

tq

*mcm lambat nk upload kt blogger*

Hello, Everyone=)

Hello,

=)

I'm Fatihah. 

This is my 3rd Attempt writting A blog.

Before this, i do have not one, but two blog.

But All of the sudden, 

I hate what i wrote.

Reasons:

1. There is more to my life, than my past

2. I have a great new life, that i want to share=)

Let The Past, Not Ever to Be forgotten,

But To be always be A lesson.~teyhasani

So everyone, 

Allow me to share with you, 

A story not to be forgotten.

Kisah suka duka hidup ku yg ku lalui setelah bergelar 

Pn. Fatihah. 

Isteri kepada En. Omar Firdaus <3

Readers and Friends:

This is a place where i would let out my expression and how i feel.

so, please do sit back and enjoy my story=)

p/s: please be a good listener, and not a complainer. If you are here to copy and paste what i have wrote. I dont mind, but Let me tell you, "What goes around,will comes around". That's all i have to say

Thank you,for reading

This is me and mr Hubby

Pn Fatihah & En. Omar<3

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